Jenn and Joshua

We're Jenn and Joshua, and we just fit. We share a lot, but where we differ, we balance each other perfectly-Joshua is thoughtful and calm, while I'm passionate and driven. His steady patience matches my "let's get 'er done" energy. Together, we're solid, supportive, and ready to raise a child with love, laughter, and stability.

We love how different we are and how we encourage each other to be fully ourselves. That's the kind of parenting we believe in, too.

We've thought a lot about what adoption really means—not just for us, but for you, and for the child at the center of it all. One thing we keep coming back to is this: their story doesn't begin with us. It begins with you. And that's something we will always honor. You will always be a part of your child's life.

Joshua knows this personally. He grew up deeply loved by his adoptive family and felt a deep connection to the woman who gave him life. He didn't meet his birth family until adulthood, but his whole life, he knew she loved him. He prayed for her every night as a kid. That kind of love leaves a mark—and we want your child to grow up knowing the same thing: that their story began with strength, love, and an incredibly brave decision.

We'll talk about you often, and always with gratitude. We'll make sure your child knows your name, your love, and the care that led you to this choice. They'll hear about you not just as part of their past, but as someone we hold in our hearts as part of our family's story.

We're open to staying in touch—whatever that means to you—updates, photos, visits, or just knowing how your child is growing and thriving. We're not here to close a door, we're here to open one. And we'll walk through it with love, patience, and respect for whatever kind of relationship feels right for you.

Hi, I'm Jenn—and I'm someone who loves hard, works hard, and laughs a lot. I have a PhD in developmental psychology, which means I've spent most of my adult life studying how kids grow and thrive. But the most important thing I've learned? Every child is different, and what matters most is raising them in a home where they feel safe, seen, and deeply loved.

Being a mom has been the greatest joy of my life. I raised my son as a single parent. And while getting a PhD and building my career was important, the most meaningful thing I have ever done is to show for my son every single day. It wasn't always easy, but it taught me how to love fiercely and never give up. Now that he's heading to college, I'm excited—and ready—to do it

all again, this time with Joshua by my side. I've never had a parenting partner before, and I can already tell this will be something really special.

I actually matched with Joshua on Hinge because his profile said he loves to dance-and not just casually. If one of his favorite songs comes on, he has to stop and dance, no matter where he is. That's so not me. I've always been more of an "I don't dance" kind of person. But for some reason, when I read that, I knew that kind of joy and spontaneity was exactly what I needed in my life. He probably doesn't even realize this, but one of my very favorite things in the world is when he hears a song he loves, starts dancing, and pulls me in with him. Every time, it reminds me how lucky I am to have found someone who brings that kind of light into my world.

Also, I'm a little quirky in the best way—I love dragons. We have dragon statues hidden all over our garden, and one of my favorite things is when my niece comes over and asks, "Can Jen Jen and I go look for the hidden dragons?" That moment, that wonder—that’s the kind of magic I want to give a child every day.

I'm the kind of mom who cries at school plays, gives goofy nicknames, and cheers way too loud at games and recitals. I might be a little embarrassing sometimes, but I'll always be their biggest fan-and they'll never have to wonder if they're loved.

Hi, I'm Joshua. I'm the kind of person who stays calm under pressure, believes in people, and always tries to look for the good—even when things are hard. I've learned that quiet strength can go a long way, whether it's in parenting, friendships, or just navigating everyday life.

I was adopted as a baby, and while I didn't meet my birth family until I was an adult, we've become really close. I have a great relationship with my birth dad and my stepmom—who I just call "Mom." I also have half-siblings I care about deeply. Growing up, I knew my birth mom loved me, even though I hadn't met her. I prayed for her every night as a kid, and that connection stayed with me. That experience shaped a lot of how I think about family, love, and what it means to show up for someone.

I grew up playing baseball and tennis, and I was always that kid who loved books and was in all the gifted programs. That hasn't really changed—I still love reading (especially fantasy and sci­ fi), playing tennis when I get the chance, and challenging Jenn to board games and video games. Friendship means a lot to me, and I've kept close with the people who matter most. My best friend and I have known each other since college, and we still talk all the time. Whether it's game nights, deep conversations, or just being there when someone needs a hand, I try to show up for the people I care about—and I'll bring that same loyalty and love to any child we raise.

Being a dad is one of the best parts of my life. Even though my kids live in another state, I stay really connected and involved. I check in with them, support their dreams, and make sure they always know they're loved. I believe in letting kids be themselves, encouraging their growth, and being the kind of parent they can trust—every step of the way.

I have a master's degree in engineering and work as a manager, where I get to support and mentor others, which is one of the most fulfilling parts of my job. I enjoy solving problems, helping people grow, and building strong, supportive teams. I've always been analytical, but I also care deeply about the people around me.

Family isn't about labels or matching last names—it’s about love, support, and showing up for each other, no matter what.

Our families are a little messy, a little blended, and full of heart. Jenn grew up with a mom who was married four times, so she has a dad, a Utah dad, a Colorado dad, and now a Canadian dad. Her sister is technically a half-sister, but they've never used that word—just "sisters," always. Her grandma is one of her closest people, and her whole family lives nearby, which means Sunday dinners and drop-ins are part of our everyday life. She's also a proud "Aunt Jen Jen" to a spunky three-year-old niece (and another baby is on the way!). Joshua was adopted as a baby and didn't meet his birth family until he was an adult. Now he's close with his birth dad, stepmom (he just calls her "Mom"), and his half-siblings. He's also a devoted uncle to a couple of nieces and a nephew-and even though they live across the country, we stay close through FaceTime and visits.

We both have older kids, but most of the time it's just the two of us (and our dogs!)—so your child would get the best of both worlds: the focused attention and closeness of being an only child day-to-day, plus the fun and connection of having older siblings during holidays, vacations, and big moments.

Jenn's son Seth is 18, working as a sushi chef while figuring out whether college or the Army will come first. He's brave, thoughtful, and a total cowboy at heart—he’s already picked out a cowboy hat and stick horse for the baby. Joshua's kids, Miles (he's 7) and Georgia (she's 11), live in Kentucky and have been asking for a baby sibling since before we got married. Miles wants to teach the baby about robots and nanobots, and Georgia will be the kind of big sister who brings creativity and wonder-ready to share her love of snails, storytelling, and Roblox.

Building traditions has become one of our favorite parts of life together and being parents. It's like an anchor—something that says, you belong here. We all went to the first Utah Hockey Club pro game together. One of our coziest winter traditions is ice skating as a family—bundled up, holding hands, and laughing when we fall. And when all the kids are in town, our new favorite tradition is a big seafood boil. Seth shows off his fish and sushi knowledge, Miles teases Georgia about lobster eyes, and we all sit down around the table, eat way too much, and laugh even more. These are the kinds of memories we want to give a child—moments that feel like home.

Together, we're steady, silly, and full of love. We bring out the best in each other—Joshua's calm balances my drive, and my passion sparks his playfulness. We support each other completely, whether we're building kitchen cabinets, baking bread, chasing the dogs around the yard, or trying to keep a straight face during game night.

Our life is full of laughter, deep conversations, and meaningful connections. Joshua has friendships that have lasted for decades—his best friend has been part of his life since college—and those relationships are a big part of our world. We believe in surrounding ourselves with people who lift each other up, and we're so excited to give a child that same sense of belonging, community, and unconditional support.

We've both been through a lot, and we don't take this life—or each other—for granted. We've worked hard to build a home that feels like a soft place to land—full of joy, support, and real connection. We can't wait to raise a child in that kind of space. If you choose us, your child will grow up with bedtime stories, kitchen dance parties, goofy traditions, and a family that shows up, no matter what. We'll make sure they know where they came from, who you are, and how deeply they are loved—by you, by us, and by the family you helped create.

We live in a quiet suburb just outside Salt Lake City, in a spacious six-bedroom home filled with warmth, laughter, and room to grow. There's a big playroom for kids to imagine and explore, a home gym and sauna to stay healthy, and plenty of cozy spaces to unwind. Outside, our shaded backyard has trees just waiting for a treehouse, a wide lawn perfect for running barefoot or playing catch, and a patio where we gather with friends and family. It's the kind of home where bedtime stories are read under blankets on the couch, dance parties break out in the kitchen for no reason at all, and where a child can grow up feeling safe, supported, and completely loved.

Just outside our door, we have trails, parks, and a community pool. It's the kind of place where kids ride bikes until dinner, neighbors chat on evening walks, and families gather for pool parties, bingo nights, and movies in the park. Down the road, we have a children's museum, an aquarium, a dinosaur museum, and a movie theater—plenty of adventures waiting nearby. Kids can run, play, and learn—soaking up the little joys of childhood, with space to grow and people who show up for one another.

We may not fully understand what you're going through, but we see your strength, your love, and the courage it takes to even consider this path. If you choose us, your child will grow up in a home filled with laughter, stability, and unwavering love. We'll celebrate who they are, cheer for them every step of the way, and help them grow into someone kind, confident, and full of purpose.

We would be honored to walk this journey with you—whatever that looks like. Whether it means sharing updates, telling your child about the love that led to their adoption, or making memories together, we're committed to open, honest connections and building something rooted in trust and respect. More than anything, we want your child to know where they came from, who you are, and how deeply they are loved—by you, by us, and by the family you helped create.

Thank you for considering us,

Jenn and Joshua

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